Divorced, I just hope she'll be ok

Since last week my marriage officially ended. The more intimate brothers and sisters know of my trajectory to save my union, but unfortunately also know that the situation was unsustainable. Love never ends, so I still hold hands, but I can no longer correspond as a partner, as a husband, perhaps as a friend or as a guardian. So my pain is not manifested now by the breaking of the union, for I spent the whole of 2016 trying to understand and accept what I should do. And here comes my request, which may seem intractable and may generate some anger in some people.
I feel very happy and living a whole new phase. In fact I've never been so happy in months. But my old lifemate is not accepting it so well. She does not eat and does not sleep. It has been painful for her and me as well; Though for an hour she thinks I'm a cold-hearted monster, I do not want her to be like this, but to be happy even though I have to go through this sadness of the end of a marriage that also plagues me.
I ask the brothers and sisters to put Juciany (my old companion) in their meditations and prayers so that she may be well and find peace and happiness in this new phase. No one's happiness can be put on the sadness of another person. Please send good energy, requests for help and all that you can. I am also open to anyone who wants to talk or give me advice, PMs are good for this so do not be shy. Thank you

Nothing very useful to say my friend, just that my thoughts are with you and your ex, and an assurance that from very similar experience, time is generally very useful in healing the kinds of wounds you're both suffering from right now.

I will keep you both (and your children if any) in my meditations and prayers , be well and let the storm just go over your head , things are being said out of anger and sadness, dont give them weight that you have to carry around with you. Its up to her now how she deals with her loss , you have also loss to deal with.

She is in my meditations. Some wounds take much time to heal and manifest in different ways. Your concern for her is telling of your care and heart within your character. Hold onto your scar for now even as you move so it may in time help her heal hers. I can only speak from my experience and heart I hope you both find peace with the present soon.

Im sorry Bruno (kyber) not use to kyber ..Time All in good time will heal itself till then it will be a hard road you know if you need anything I am here u know...

You already know what I think master, and you know I love you both and wish you the best. I know your decision was not easy and that it took you a long time to get to where you are now, and I'm sure it will take Juh a similar time to assimilate all that has happened.

I am proud that through all your fears, you have always found the courage to be forthcoming with her, and though it is painful now, it is much better in the long run for both of you to have lived an honest relationship.

Lots of love to you both.

My best to the both of you, of course.

Grief, and the anger that can come with it, are necessary in healing and must be given time and space to occur and resolve. But it would be strange if some part of us did not want to rescue others from that grief. Still, we must allow each other those journeys within.

Take good care of yourself. Be kind to her. And, sometimes, kindness will mean space or silence.

Make sure you get through this too.

My thoughts are with you, that you both will remember this is part of a story that you are not only the characters in, but the author of as well... so, make it one that turns out to be a positive example for everyone you one day tell it to.

Be things as they are.
Do things as they do.
Know not one but all.
Know not all but one.
Breathe and feel life.
Smile and know joy.
Laugh and know play.
Nothing else matters.

Im sorry. As a few people have said, there is nothing we can really say. The ending of relationships is a death of sorts, not just of that time in our lives, but of who we were in it. Grieving is part of healing.

We are always here to listen