A approach for love.

Tips for those that moan about single life.
Stop thinking disrespectful. about women.

Make surrogate sisters instead so being a friend is normal.
I have a lot of surrogate sisters around my age. Also
read novels, cause scientificly it makes you think less
perverse.

End of story after time of trust then might find other,
half. Though trial and error. Also don't cheat or
have many gf's seriously.

My female mention that movies is vice versa to novels.

Just in case you're confused, I moved this thread into the Miscellaneous section.

I certainly hope that those who want to find love are in agreement with you about many of the things that you suggest they shouldn't do

But people do complain about single life for many reasons, and not all are single because they are doing the wrong things! Plenty of people are just waiting patiently to meet the right person

Theoretically noted.

I'm single because no women have managed to get past my first 3 requirements...
1. No smoking
2. No drugs
3. No heavy drinkers

There are more preferences that follow, but since none get past the 3 absolutes it doesn't matter about the others...at least no women I've met in the surrounding 50 mile radius ....

You clearly need to move!


I think Ren may have been right, womens requirements lists are far more comprehensive!

My requirements were:
Breathing and has a pulse
Under 300 lbs
Not too materialistic
Open to my weirdness


And I *still* had trouble finding someone who wanted to stick around...

Athleticism, attractive to me (doesn't matter if anyone else finds her so), intelligence, her own wierdness...these are a few of my favorite things and in no particular order...

My requirements:
Intelligent
Funny
Sane

Everything else is optional

An approach to love... 2 steps:


Learn to manage desire.

Then learn to manage fear.

What arises after is everything else you'll need.

Most everyone has a list of wants, what is you list of gives?