A great Poem about those who reach elder ages

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08 Aug 2010 00:58 - 08 Aug 2010 00:59 #32416 by
When an old man died in the geriatric ward of a nursing home in North Platte , Nebraska , it was believed that he had nothing left of any value.

Later, when the nurses were going through his meager possessions, they found this poem. Its quality and content so impressed the staff that copies were made and distributed to every nurse in the hospital. One nurse took her copy to Missouri .

The old man's sole bequest to posterity has since appeared in the Christmas edition of the News Magazine of the St. Louis Association for Mental Health. A slide presentation has also been made based on his simple, but eloquent, poem.

And this little old man, with nothing left to give to the world, is now the author of this 'anonymous' poem winging across the Internet.

CRABBY OLD MAN




Crabby Old Man

What do you see nurses? . . . .. . What do you see?
What are you thinking . . . . . When you're looking at me?
A crabby old man . . . . . Not very wise,
Uncertain of habit . . . . . With faraway eyes?

Who dribbles his food . . . . . And makes no reply.
When you say in a loud voice . . . . . 'I do wish you'd try!'
Who seems not to notice . . . . .. The things that you do.
And forever is losing . . . . . A sock or shoe?

Who, resisting or not . . . . . Lets you do as you will,
With bathing and feeding . . . . . The long day to fill?
Is that what you're thinking? . . . . . Is that what you see?
Then open your eyes, nurse . . .. . . You're not looking at me.

I'll tell you who I am. . . . . . As I sit here so still,
As I do at your bidding, . . . . . As I eat at your will.
I'm a small child of Ten . .. . . . With a father and mother,
Brothers and sisters . . . . . Who love one another.

A young boy of Sixteen . . . . With wings on his feet..
Dreaming that soon now . . . . . A lover he'll meet.
A groom soon at Twenty . . . . . My heart gives a leap.
Remembering, the vows . . . . .. That I promised to keep.

At Twenty-Five, now . . . . . I have young of my own.
Who need me to guide . . . . . And a secure happy home.
A man of Thirty . . . . . My young now grown fast,
Bound to each other . . . . . With ties that should last.

At Forty, my young sons . . . . . Have grown and are gone,
But my woman's beside me . . . . . To see I don't mourn.
At Fifty, once more, babies play 'round my knee,
Again, we know children . . . . . My loved one and me.

Dark days are upon me . . . . . My wife is now dead.
I look at the future . . . . . Shudder with dread.
For my young are all rearing . . . . . Young of their own.
And I think of the years .. . . . . And the love that I've known.

I'm now an old man . . . . . And nature is cruel.
Tis jest to make old age . . . .. . Look like a fool.
The body, it crumbles . . . . . Grace and vigor, depart.
There is now a stone . .. . . Where I once had a heart.

But inside this old carcass . . . . . A young guy still dwells,
And now and again . . . . . My battered heart swells.
I remember the joys . . . . . I remember the pain.
And I'm loving and living . . . .. . Life over again.

I think of the years, all too few . . . . . Gone too fast.
And accept the stark fact . . . . That nothing can last.
So open your eyes, people . . . . . Open and see.
Not a crabby old man . . . Look closer . . . See ME!!

I got this as a forward from a good friend, and thought instead of emailing it out I'd rather post and share it here :-)
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08 Aug 2010 02:23 #32418 by
I just have to say that is a very good one. I am a nurse and every now and then it takes a little nudge to remember they are not room numbers they have a name, a life, family. Thank You Jasper_Ward.

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08 Aug 2010 07:56 #32419 by Jestor
.....and not just the old are seen in this light...

busy as we are we often miss those around us with thoughts, problems and concerns...
...The lady in line behind us at the bank...
...The guy in front of you at the gas sation cashier, the cashier him/her self...
...Our parents and children, strangers and friends....

When we focus solely on our own issues and plight,
We forget, our purpose....

To help one another, love one another, serve.. one another...

Great poem, Jasper...

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09 Aug 2010 02:31 #32426 by RyuJin
it's sad that often people only see what they want or expect to see, not enough take the time to clear their eyes and look closer. this could be said not only about people in general but all aspects of life. some look for answers that are right in front of them yet they do not see them.

likewise i worked in a nursing home for a couple of years as a dietician and it was all to easy to make a conclusion about someone simply by their appearance or their initial behavior...i usually reserved drawing conclusions on anyone until i knew them for several months, this allowed me to talk to them on a regular basis and get to know them before i decided anything...oftentimes it also led to me defending them against others that didn't know them yet(typically just explaining why they acted the way they did). i was actually working there when 9/11 happened and saw alot of the old veterans get highly emotional over it....

it's kind of interesting that this poem popped up when it did. on the same day i was writing a sermon about the same thing. funny how things work like that...quite often in my case....

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