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"Who is more important, you or others? The conclusion is clear; even if minor suffering happens to all others; its range is infinite, whereas when something happens to me, it is limited to just one person. When we look at others in this way, oneself is not so important." ~ The Dalai Lama

 

All too often people think only of themselves. As you go about your daily life take notice as people sit by and watch bad things happen to others, or cause bad things to happen to others. Often they comfort themselves by saying: “better them, then me”. When something bad happens to someone else it affects not only that person but everyone that depends on that person. A mother, a father, a daughter or a son that’s waiting or in need of something, or someone.

 

When people act selfishly others suffer, but when people act selflessly others prosper.

 

In your daily life take notice when people help others. Something as simple as changing a tire for a mother on her way to the grocery store alleviates suffering not only for her but her family. This is where the idea of the golden rule comes into play: do unto others as you would have others do unto you. By limiting suffering to only one’s self we allow others to grow and prosper, if each person does this then suffering is removed from the world and everyone prospers, ourselves included.

 

Imagine a world where no one suffers.

 

As Jedi we must constantly and consciously remember this: By emphasizing the safety and serenity of others we in turn guarantee the safety and serenity of ourselves. For it is in placing importance on the self that the universe comes undone.

 

How does one accomplish this? Simple, by helping, whether it’s carrying a bag or changing a tire, nothing is too small to make a big difference. Lend an ear to someone in need of talking, bring a smile to someone sad, these may seem like trivial things yet to others they can make a mountain of difference.

 

When you wake up in the morning ask yourself: who is the most important person? Is the answer yourself? Or is it someone else? If you think of someone other than yourself right away then you are well on track to freeing the world of suffering and strife.

Comments 9

  1. Mark Barwell
    As Jedi we strive to make a difference by doing - it's the same idea as "paying it forward". Why not act to improve the world when it usually takes very little effort? Great sermon! Very thought-provoking!

    To quote Edmund Burke: "The only thing necessary for the triumph [of evil] is for good men to do nothing".

    Or to quote Heather Small (M People): "what have you done today to make you feel proud?"

    Who says philosophy and pop culture don't mix?!
  2. RyuJin
    often pop culture and philosophy are one in the same
  3. Jestor
    My Dad, unbeknowest to him, taught me the "Pay it Forward" idea. I used to have the long hair and unkept dress standards that youth so often have. But, I was always a pretty decent kid.

    When helping someone, and they would offer to pay me in some way, I used to tell them to not judge a book by it's cover, and that if a person needed help, to at least offer assistance..... Regarless of their mannerisms or dress...

    Now, with the invention of cell phones, (wow I'm old), life has gotten busier, (I am working to slow it back down..), but I still call for stranded motorists, and when I see anything 'funny".... they tell me at the Neighborhood Watch Meetings to call, that is what they (the police) are there for...
  4. Br. John
    [b]I am convinced that our actions eventually return to us for good or evil. Karma. It may not be right away and the connection is not always obvious but what you do comes back to you.[/b]
  5. Jestor
    I agree our actions return to us as karma, But I often wonder....

    If I do a deed, I percieve as good, yet another percieves as bad, what of the enegy created there?

    I think we have discussed the "good and evil" aspects of things... I do understand your point though....

    Lately I find myself saying.... "It is all perspective and perception"......
  6. RyuJin
    quite true that everything is subject to perspective/perception

    my general rule is: if it's legal and doesn't bring harm to anyone then it's good, if it's illegal and brings harm then it's bad, anything else is just a crapshoot as to how it will be perceived.
  7. Christopher Ward Kaemming
    It sounds like you have faith in our legal system. This golden rule philosophy, I think, spans more than just our conscious actions. Setting good examples like projecting good driving habits as a positive thing has an impression on the impressionable. That's one more safe driver on the vary roads you drive yourself, as well as thousands of others. As far as karma being "intent sensitive", I think the intent part is only in perception, though the direct cause and effect could be on a black and white level of intent blindness. If you happen to be able to see the good in an action that may be a grey area or even considered bad by others, than you're likely to see the good in the resulting karma that may be seen as a grey area or even bad by other perspectives. Great sermon indeed RyuJin.
  8. RyuJin
    it's not really faith in the legal system as much as an undestanding that money makes the laws and i have none so i'm subject to them. hundreds of laws a day are passed that affect us that we have no say in. the system is corrupt in many areas, and ineffective in others...while other areas have 2 different sets of laws, 1 for the poor, and 1 for the rich....personally i think people should be able to police themselves.....
  9. David Robert Servante
    A very good sermon. It can be hard to help those in need, especially if they have wronged us in the past or if we cannot help them the way they need or want. For example, a beggar asks for money and you only have a 10 note, and you really need that. Also you suspect that the person will spend the money on alcohol, which is only a quick fix for them. I know we should not judge a book by it's cover but for stereotypes to be born, there must, in the words of Terry Pratchet be 'a grain of truth' How does one handle this situation?