One Month In!!
How is your New Years going?
Still on your diet? Still working out? Still off the cigarettes? Being more charitable? Being that overall, better you, you are hoping and looking for?
If so, congratulations! If not, don't give up!
Like we tell newer folks here at TOTJO, and tell each other constantly, take your time... It is not a race... It is good to set goals, just do not set unrealistic goals...
Yea, if you meet those goals quickly, won't you be happy!!
But will you make that goal?
Or, like so many, have you decided that since you won't hit your mark, then "just forget it!"
Take your time... Set small, realistic goals... One pound of weight lost each month... One lesson a week... One less cigarette a day... One less hot dog from the gas station (hint Jestor)... Maybe even one less profanity a day...
Remember, none if us are perfect... None of us are infallible... All you can do, is do your best...
This is not an excuse... Look in the mirror, be honest... Have you really gave it your best effort (one less hot dog Jestor)? Or have you justified it with, "well, it is just a hot dog..."
Constant vigilance, constant effort....
Just as getting "rusty" at a physical exercise from lack of practice, the same can be said for any endeavor...
Practice constantly, stay the course...
Good luck... And enjoy the journey...
It's not all rainbows and butterflies, but its not all razor blades and alcohol, either...
May the Force be with You....
;)

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One step at a time... :-)
Any change in life style requires dedication and practice to get it right and I completely agree that it is best to take things slowly when the time and place is right for you.
'It is better to take many small steps in the right direction than to make a great leap forward only to stumble backward.' - Chinese proverb
Good job!!
May the Force be with you.
And I never tire of his charm. I look forward to his next sermon.
May the Force be with you my friend.
was really bad in all faces, all ways for me, but this year, I start remembering the force, at any time, to catch the path again... I don't give up, i have so much to do, to improve of myself, but the first is, find my path again, I don't know, if the force is present in your mind during the normal day activity, for me is the way to be calm, to think, to not become angry or mad..., i have it present, in mind and body, at almost all the time, I am not active here, posting or sharing, but I read... soon, I'm going to be ready to start my studies in here, catch and follow what I left pending.
Thanks
Fennan